Invisible pleasures

5 Jul

The unseen and untold adventures of my heart varies in different situations.  Each stage or woman comes with various obstacles in which we encounter according to previous experiences.  My personal journey at the time is an emotional exploration, which is something I haven’t partaking in.  I’ve dealt with: promiscuous women, fun women, partially rich women, but never an emotionally open woman.  A new experience is always a risk within itself, because you never know if you’re gonna like or dislike it.  Although the smallest outbursts of emotional outcries intrigues my heart beyond anything I’ve ever imagined.  The difficulty in discovering someone that’s willing to take an emotional risk is as rare as discovering a UFO.  One reasoning behind this fact is.  People feel that if love hurts once  why attempt it again?  Usually during this particular mindset, they cherish their hearts more than their bodies.  Meaning its one thing to get my sex but don’t expect to get my heart along with it.  I believe the two things should go hand in hand, we should cherish our hearts and our bodies both equally.  Thinking like this, I know I have been in many situations that have caused tons of confusion. Even though some people cherish their hearts more, they still expect you to believe that they’re really into you just because they’re open in the bedroom.  I couldn’t disagree with this notion more.  We as people find it easy to do things in which a sacrifice isn’t involved in.  Those things come “a dime a dozen” with us.  On the contrary, sacrifices calls for: time, effort, etc.  All things that can potentially put you in an emotional let down predicament.  Sacrifice brings forward vulnerability.  There’s no such thing as a strong bond without vulnerability.  Any type of relationship that we’re in whether its: a friendship, boy or girlfriend, etc.  All of these require vulnerability according to the strength or significance of it.  Meaning the more vulnerable you are the more you care.  The more you care the bigger the risk of you being hurt.  The cliche that best describes this is “no pain no gain”.  In other words the way to my heart, is not through my stomach.  It’s a straight emotional path, following your emotional gps will lead you directly to it.


3 Responses to “Invisible pleasures”

  1. momcdougal July 6, 2012 at 12:00 am #

    Awesome blog, really like this one by far

  2. chistee July 6, 2012 at 12:07 am #

    Good stuff 🙂

  3. Kelda Nicole January 7, 2014 at 4:45 am #

    I love this! It is refreshing to see a MAN understand && also be able to articulate feelings/emotions. I know I personally have an issue with showing vulnerability, which is something I need to work on to discover && appreciate TRUE love. Thanks for the reminder 🙂

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